Cons:– If you don’t know how to transition to attraction conversation, you come across as friendly and non-threatening – ie: Friend Material. It can be something like pretending your doing an interview, using a prop, or doing magic.
Pros:– You differentiate yourself from other guys.– It’s pretty easy to use and it captures her attention.
Cons:– You need to have a quick follow up.– You run the risk of appearing like a clown.
An example of a situational opener is just turning to a woman you’re next to and making a comment about the environment – where you are, what’s going on.
It doesn’t mean you’re a fake and a pick up artist – it just means you are implementing that Boy Scout motto: Be Prepared.“When presented with a situation that requires action, the best thing to do is the right thing. The worst thing to do is nothing.” – Teddy Roosevelt. ” Here is your answer Almost EVERY man I talk to about picking up women always says the same thing.“I don’t know what to say.”“How do I start a conversation with her? Nowadays – one of those “Situations that require action” is that moment when you’re hanging out at the club and you spot the woman of dreams. If you’ve ever asked yourself “how to start a conversation with a girl?There is a killer, step-by-step technique for this in a podcast episode I did with the Menprovement founder, Sean Russell, which allows you to gain acceptance from her peers and isolate her from the group if you wish. In the meantime – always remember that any remotely attractive woman has had 100s of guys approach her. And fifth is inviting her into a conversation you’re already having. You can do this by saying something like, ‘Hey, you’re giving off an incredible energy, and I had to come over here and see what you’re deal was’.You need a good opener – a good opener starts a conversation with her in a way that sets you apart from the other guys who have approached her. While I have tons of exact little lines and things to say – and I’ll give you some here – keep in mind that you are an individual, and you can tailor each of these different types of openers to fit your personality and interests. Notice though, you are not complimenting the woman to seek her approval.